Ahahaha--oh my god, dude, you're so friggin' defensive, that'd be downright adorable if you were a girl. Don't get your undies in a bunch, I know I'm a moron but I can guess why you're working as a chef and not a host for reasons besides "would scare off customers." 'Cause it's not something you'd enjoy doing, right?

[Not so long ago it would have been his thing but...not so much now.]

Like you told me, gotta find what you like and do it.