[There's a brief huff of annoyance - she was travelling in circles and there was no way in hell he was catching up. He's still back on it being an assumption, and she's already jumping ahead to things he doesn't even understand yet. Back up a second--]
You can't be there to watch out for a person all the time, Zelda. Regardless of who they are or how they feel about things. That's dependency, it's leeching, and it's kind of insane. I don't know why you think this is all on you, but you need to trust him. He has to be able to care for himself and call on other people besides you if he's really so upset - to put the burden soley on yu is selfish.
And besides... what the hell did he figure out? Feelings about what?
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[There's a brief huff of annoyance - she was travelling in circles and there was no way in hell he was catching up. He's still back on it being an assumption, and she's already jumping ahead to things he doesn't even understand yet. Back up a second--]
You can't be there to watch out for a person all the time, Zelda. Regardless of who they are or how they feel about things. That's dependency, it's leeching, and it's kind of insane. I don't know why you think this is all on you, but you need to trust him. He has to be able to care for himself and call on other people besides you if he's really so upset - to put the burden soley on yu is selfish.
And besides... what the hell did he figure out? Feelings about what?