Calm down! Goodness. At the very least, it's not relationship drama.

[It's a little bit of a weak joke, but she's trying to think of some advice for him.]

I think, first and foremost, you need to let the adults meddle amongst themselves. They have their own lives and dramas to play out, and the best you can do is to remind them one-on-one that you would much prefer them safe.

If you believe that someone, who has a history of violence, is going back on his "promise", then you may have no choice but to always be ready with an escape route when he's near. It may be rude, but that would simply be safer for everyone.

And you may have to consider that the one adult troll who didn't keep you in the know was doing it so that you wouldn't try to get involved. Sometimes there are affairs which are best left to only a few people, even if that may be difficult for you to accept. I understand that withholding that sort of thing makes a role model look a bit less trustworthy, but they could very well be doing it in your best interests or in the best interests of others involved.

Let's see... that's the best advice I can offer based on what I know. I don't know if it will help, but I hope things are resolved for you soon.