sixth King : anon text

[parasolspinning]

I'm sure this has been asked by others before me, but indulge me Vatheon, if you don't mind.

How do you, personally, deal with grief? How does loss hit you, and how do you face every day when your heart is aching from that loss?

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[radiantwingedone]

By hurting until everything is numb.

[ That is the short answer of "Duke doesn't deal with grief well either". ]

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[seablaze]

I go out and have a good time.
And then visit the friends I have left here.
The casino is a nice place to forget things for a bit.
Lots of flashy lights, drinks, and entertainment.

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[booyaka_boom]

*Aww Shiro - if Selphie knew it was you she would be round there quick as a flash*

First off, if you gotta scream or cry, then you gotta scream or cry. I like to do this on my own, though! ^^ Then, you get the biggest chocolate cake you can find and you eat ALL OF IT!~ After that, you go find someone who can give you the biggest hug ever, and maybe they'll go with you for some dinner too (and/or cocktails!)

...missing someone from home? Or has someone just left?

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[shirleyhopeful]

[Oh this was something she could relate to so well]

I can say for sure since everyone deal with grief differently but the first way to start is by talking to your friends.

It's better to talk about it then to keep it bottled up since it can only get worse if you do.

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[chizuru]

The loss of someone dear to you is so hard, isn't it? [ Sure, typing this text out is a bit difficult for the girl.. but she does need to get used to the device, and.. the loss of someone she cares about? Chizuru is quite used to that, by now. ] I think that everyone deals with it differently, but I always told myself I had to continue on each day doing my best.. especially for those that I know would look upon my days and maybe be proud of me. I think in order to move on you do need to accept that it happened for a reason..

[p2iioniicii2t]

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[apersonjustforme]

Deal with grief? If grief a bad thing? Are you missing someone?

[More questions than answers, but Chii is learning.]

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[spiria]

i personally try and find something to do to take my mind off of it

it's easier said than done though, and it doesn't always work

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[wavesofjade]

Ignoring The Pain You Feel Will Not Serve You Well As Time Goes On.
It Should Be Faced, And Dealt With In Your Own Way.
You Must Remember That Crying Does Not Make You Weak.
But Also That To Not Cry Does Not Mean Something Is Wrong In How You Are Working Through Your Emotions.
You May Express How You Feel In Many Ways.
But Most Importantly, You Must Not Allow Anyone Else To Tell You How You Should Feel.
You Will Let Go When You Are Ready, And Not Before.
I Know That Grief Can Be Very Lonely.
I Did Not Have The Opportunity To Express How I Felt To Others.
It Was Difficult, But There Is A Way To Find Strength In Your Loss.