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[spiria]

i heard somewhere that writing letters you never intend to send to someone helps you to cope with how you feel toward them.

has anyone ever done this? im thinking of trying it. its better than just moping around.

also to everyone who has been helping me feel better so far, thank you very much. im really grateful for all your help.

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[takesyoubytheheart]

I've never heard of that before.

But it sounds like a good idea.

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[spiria]

do you think so?

i think it might help ... all ive been wanting to do is let him know how i feel, but he doesnt want to be found so i cant. it might make me feel better to just get it out anyway.

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[takesyoubytheheart]

I don't think it could hurt!

Go for it!

Give it a try!

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[coolerthansora]

I don't know about letters.

But I know journals help.

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[spiria]

so maybe a journal of letters?

i think it might be easier to just write letters to him ... most of my thoughts and feelings are more just trying to cope without him around.

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[coolerthansora]

Seems like a good idea for sorting things out. Even if you never tell him any of it.

[fintastic]

It sounds like a good idea to me!
Try it!
If it doesn't work, at least you gave it a go
And you are no worse off t)(an you were before!

[spiria]

this is true. i think i will try it thank you.

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[behisstrength]

[Since Mitsuhide is sleeping and cannot look out for her himself, Motochika will step in.]

Coping is an individual process, Kohaku. Try it for yourself and see if it helps you.

Expression can take many forms; some will resonate with you better than others. What is important is that you do not silence yourself.

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[spiria]

[ ohhhh, she doesn't know about Mitsuhide being asleep just yet. :( she is very glad to see you, though, Motochika ... even if she can't really properly express it over text. ]

ok

thank you very much for the advice motochika

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[behisstrength]

You're welcome.

Mitsuhide shall be glad to learn of your progress when he wakes from his slumber.

text; anon || And nope~ Not filtered or private kiddies

[halfhearted]

[Cope was such a foreign concept. As well as "feel better" and grateful.]
That sounds like a dumb idea. Wouldn't it be easier just to tell them face to face?
Oh that's right. They took off.
Here's a novel concept: use this communicator to yell and be pathetic at his voice mail.

text; anon || wow rude :|

[spiria]

some people might actually respect when someone they care about wants time to themselves

if you dont have anything helpful to say please just dont say anything at all

text; anon || mrrr <3

[halfhearted]

Is this what relationships are about?
It's okay for him to do as he pleases
while you are stuck in one place unable to move forward.
You're behaving like some stupid dog waiting for their master.

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[ladyinscarlet]

I tried that once...

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[spiria]

how did it work for you?

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[ladyinscarlet]

Not as well as I expected.

[Not whe she wanted to stop loving Vincent Phantomhive after her sister married him. Or when she was jealous of her sister having Phantomhive's baby. Or even now, when she half wants to kill her nephew to stop seeing her sister's and beloved's face in his.]

[TEXT] if you have any issue with the text quirk, just let me know and I'll leave it off!

[bethehugejerk]

CONSIDERING HUMANS ARE A SPECIES ALREADY USELESS ENOUGH TO HAVE A CONCEPT OF "MAIL" AND SENDING LETTERS TO EACH OTHER
WHAT, I IMPLORE YOU, WOULD BE THE POINT OF WRITING ONE YOU AREN'T EVEN GOING TO SEND.
HOW DOES THAT HELP ANYTHING.
I REPEAT, *HOW*.
ARE YOU HOPING THE MYSTICAL BRAINWAVES CHANNELED THROUGH YOUR WRITING IMPLEMENT ARE GOING TO REACH THE PERSON BY SHEER FORCE OF WILL
ARE YOU HOPING WHOEVER IT IS HAS THEIR OWN MINDREADING DUMBASS POWERS TO MAGICALLY GUESS WHAT YOU'RE THINKING AS YOU WRITE
BECAUSE UNLESS ONE OR BOTH OF YOU IS AN ACTUAL PSYCHIC, YOU'RE BEING AN AVOIDANT MORON.

[TEXT] no issues here! o/

[spiria]

maybe i just need a way of getting it out

he doesnt want to be found

i will respect that but i still need to vent

its silly i know but if it helps im willing to try it

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[bethehugejerk]

THEN WHY ARE YOU SO STUCK ON THIS ASSHOLE?
IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE FOUND THEN ODDS ARE HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS.

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[doormat_hikari]

It can definitely help.

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[spiria]

have you tried it before?

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[doormat_hikari]

I have. I used to write my sister letters after she was killed in a car crash.

[flared]

In a way it works.

But then you've kept all your thoughts and feelings bottled up inside of you.

[spiria]

he doesnt need to know how much it hurts to be without him ... hes already been through enough. we both have.

i just need a way to cope so i can be strong until he comes back.