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[livingvessel]

[The text is short, but hides both the amount of time spent thinking about it, and the amount of time spent laboriously typing it out by a girl who's still kind of not tech-savvy at all.]

What do you do when you start thinking that maybe you've been wrong about somebody for a really long time?

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[closedcircuit]

Offer them an apology and see if they'll accept it, before you try anything else.

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[livingvessel]

What if the other person can't accept it?

[closedcircuit]

Then if you were certain you were sincere in it, and did the best you can...you have to focus on other things.

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[pendragon]

[ It's rare that anything on the network catches Saber's attention, but this does. After all, the knight's experienced it herself. ]

You will need to decide if you truly believe you were wrong or not. Ultimately, you're the one that will need to deal with your decision. And then you move on and make amends, if possible.

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[livingvessel]

What if you believe you're wrong, but you can't do anything about it?

[pendragon]

Then you accept and move on. This sounds like it's more of a personal situation and you simply have to overcome it yourself.

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[honeyflaaash]

[Oh, Honey knows how this feels. She's been wrong about so many people in the past, it's a little sad.]

I think it depends on the situation. If you thought they were a good person but they're actually not, you should start avoiding them. If you thought they were a bad person but they're actually very kind, it's best to make amends. Or at least treat them better.

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[livingvessel]

What if that person's not around for you to do any of that?

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[honeyflaaash]

Then it's something to bear in mind, should you see them again. I think what's important is that you realized it in the first place.

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[onebecametwo]

easy. punch them! problem solved.

text, anon

[livingvessel]

... punch them? What will that do?

[Not that she can, anyway.]

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[onebecametwo]

easy! make ya feel better!

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[gtfo_mypersonalspace]

Submit a formal letter of apology to the offended party.

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[livingvessel]

Even if there's no one left to read it?

[gtfo_mypersonalspace]

If you are implying that they are deceased then that is hardly an issue. Your letter of apology can easily be attached to the files of those offended.

[ Written like a true bureaucratic Death God. ]

too lazy to anon-

[radiantwingedone]

What kind of wrong?

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[livingvessel]

Like thinking that you were abandoned by that person.

[radiantwingedone]

You admit you are wrong, and.. move on, if both are willing.

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[ukidokiotaku]

Oh! I know this one. A friend told me to get to know the person, instead of first judgments. Maybe in this case you could get to know this person all over again.

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[livingvessel]

I... wish I could.

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[ukidokiotaku]

Why not?

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[savemegermany]

Offer them good food! It's a good way to apologize and make someone happy.

Or write them a really really long note.

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[livingvessel]

If I wrote it to him, he wouldn't be able to read it. He wouldn't be able to eat anything I gave him, either.

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[shippingmath]

Depends on what you thought about them in the first place.
If you thought positively about them and you learned otherwise, get the fuck out of Dodge.
If you thought negatively of them, fess the fuck up and tell them that.

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[livingvessel]

What if I can't confess to that person any more?